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<p><em>Have you ever wondered why the sexual aspect of your life and relationship keeps lagging behind no matter how hard you try or how many times you have sex repeatedly?&nbsp; Yet, it still comes out as regular and boring. That's because your sex life is lacking spice and flavor. In this article, you'll be learning ways to spice things up in the bed with your lover, not just that, but how to keep your partner yearning for you alone.</em></p>
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<p><strong>Exploring New And Crazy Sex Positions.</strong></p>
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<p>Sex positions play a huge role in our sex life, always try out and switch positions during coitus, and be open to trying new positions. it shouldn't be Missionary all the time, As romantic as the missionary position is, it gets boring and your partner loses interest in sex, try crazy positions like the bodyguard, doggy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, 69, spooning, edge of the bed, etc. Spice up your sex life with new and different positions.</p>
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<p><strong>Foreplay.</strong></p>
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<p>Never leave foreplay out of your sex life, this is the number one rule you shouldn't break. This is because Foreplay is super important as it helps your partner relax, settle and get ready before sex. Always spend quality time on foreplay, find and play with the sensitive parts of your partner's body. Play with their nipples, vagina, anus, belly button, penis, and balls. Suck, rim, kiss, lick stimulate, fondle, finger, and caress your partner while you make out, it doesn't have to be penetrative sex all the time. Did you know that you can climax and orgasm from good foreplay? I bet you didn't, this is the ore reason you should try it out.</p>
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<p><strong>Sex Toys.</strong></p>
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<p>Yes, your old regular sex of humping and kissing can be boring, but it gets better if you introduce some toys to the game. Introducing sex toys like vibratory, cuffs, anal toys, fleshlight, penis rings, pumps, Ben wa balls, and dildos to your sex life for stimulation can be a total game changer. When it comes to your sexual life, you should always keep an open mind to exploring and trying new things, and new ways to pleasure yourself and your partner.&nbsp; Like the vagina and anal stimulation with your partner.&nbsp; It shouldn't be penetrative sex all the time, you can always use sex toys to bring your partner to climax, and your partner will enjoy this too. Do not forget to always use enough lubricant to make it enjoyable.</p>
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<p><strong>Shower And Smell Nice Before Having Sex.</strong></p>
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<p>Smelling nice is a major turn-on during romance, foreplay, and sex, so you must make sure to use a nice cologne, anti persistent and body wash while bathing to smell fresh and clean because it's another level of sexiness and turn-on when you inhale the sweet scent that's coming from your partner's skin while caressing and romancing them. Always make sure you shower well and wash your scrotum, vagina, ass crack, and anus properly before having sex, in case you decide to go kinky.</p>
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<p><strong>Try Dirty Talking And Being Vocal During Sex.</strong></p>
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<p>Dirty Talking during sex is another thing you should try out in your sex life, being vocal during sex helps boost your partner's ego because they feel you're enjoying what they're doing. Don't just lie down like a statue or sex doll, instead, moan, groan, grunt, say dirty and nasty things, and be vocal in a sexy way during sex and you'll see the difference.</p>
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<p><strong>Be Aggressive.</strong></p>
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<p>Just as being romantic during sex is a turn-on, being aggressive is a turn too. Somedays we just need aggressive and rough sex, so you can always try this out with your partner.&nbsp; If you are into or want to try out BDSM (Sadism and masochism) Just a little aggression will do the trick, and always have a safe word for your partner in case you go overboard while you're at it so it doesn't get uncomfortable for them.</p>
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<p><strong>Trying Out Sex In Crazy And New P</strong>laces.</p>
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<p>This is another way to add flavors to your sex life, you shouldn't always wait for a bed before getting sexual or freaky with your partner, but make sure your partner is ok and into this kind of stuff before you start. You can always try out sex in the car, balcony, couch, kitchen cabinet, swimming pool, bathtub, and shower to spice up your sex life.</p>
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<p><strong>Role Play And Talking About Your Fantasy.</strong></p>
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<p>Sexual roleplay involves acting out roles during sex to spice up your sex life. So if you're into that kinda kinky stuff you can always explore the option with your partner after you guys have discussed each other's sexual fantasies, might not be easy discussing all your sexual fantasies with your partner but in the end, it's worth it.</p>
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<p><strong>Sensual And Erotic Massage</strong></p>
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<p>Erotic massages can be used to spice up your sex life. All you have to do is get a good massage oil with a lovely fragrance, make your partner strip and lie naked while you use the oil to massage their body. You can also use the oil to stimulate and massage their clits, penis, and anus till they reach a climax this works like a two-in-one because your partner gets a massage and also gets a mind-blowing orgasm.</p>
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<p><strong>Getting Freaky.</strong></p>
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<p>Like it was mentioned earlier, you have to open your mind to trying crazy and freaky stuff in bed with your partner. You can do this by helping your partner shower after a long day at work, then you get ice cream, whip cream, or honey, get your partner in bed, make them comfortable while you spread it on their body then you lick everything slowly while you worship and caress all parts of their body. You can also use the honey to give your partner a sloppy blowjob/ head while you get vocal and maintain eye contact. Make sure you are confident in what you're doing because confidence is a turn-on for a lot of people.</p>
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<p><strong>Threesomes.</strong></p>
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<p>A threesome can be another way to add flavors to your sex life, but before you do, you need to sit your partner down and talk this through to make sure they are comfortable and to get their full consent and support. Threesome isn't cheating or being inclusive if you and your partner are comfortable with going an extra mile for pleasure. All you have to do is pick someone that both of you like, invite them over, play it safe and try to include everyone don't focus on your partner alone or the third party.</p>
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<p><strong>Working Out And Yoga classes</strong></p>
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<p>This here might seem unrelated to the topic but the truth is it's related to the topic. Working out and taking yoga classes regularly helps in building your stamina, and flexibility and also helps in performing well in bed. Being fit and sexy helps a lot because it's a turn-on for your partner and you get to try out unimaginable positions if you have the stamina and flexibility, the deal is to make your partner crave more and anticipate the next session.</p>
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<p><strong>Diet.</strong></p>
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<p>Sometimes the food you take affects the way you taste during oral sex, so it's advisable you avoid taking spicy food, tobacco, and alcohol if you going to get freaky that day or the next. Take chocolate, a lot of fruits like pineapple, avocados, berries, watermelon, and smoothies/milkshakes to change the way you taste and help with the texture of your semen, it's a major turn-on and motivation when you taste nice during oral sex or 69, it drives your partner crazy and makes them wanna munch on you and devour you.</p>
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<p><strong>Romantic Candle Lights With Rose Petals.</strong></p>
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<p>This might look cheesy but can be used to spice things up after a romantic dinner or long day at work. All you need to do is to get scented candles(might be your partner's favorite scent), sexy lingerie or thongs, and rose petals get creative and romantic then take the slow and passionate steps/strokes during sex, foreplay, and romance. This kind of setting requires you to be gentle, romantic, and passionate.</p>
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<p><strong>Knowing Your Partner's G-spot.</strong></p>
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<p>This is another important thing you need to know if you want to add spice to your sex life. You should always try to locate your partner's spot, prostrate and erogenous zones during the early phase or stage of your relationship so that you will know how to pleasure and satisfy them. If you continuously assault their g-spot, prostate, and erogenous zone you turn them into a moaning mess and deliver a mind-blowing orgasm. It's a turn-on when they feel you know what you're doing because they know they are in good hands, it helps boost your ego and performance more and makes them want and crave for you all the time.</p>
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<p><strong>Music</strong></p>
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<p>Music can be used to spice things up a bit, the music turns some people on and it helps in reducing stress levels, enhances intimacy, and makes things get more intense and emotional during sex, romance and foreplay. You and your partner can always create a playlist with calm music that carries the kind of sexual energy you both love. The kind you can put on anytime you're about to get sexual or freaky. You can always make your choice from RnB, Reggae, Blues, Rap, Pop, and Heavy metal. Let it be something you both agree on.</p>
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<p><strong>Using BDSM Kit.</strong></p>
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<p>You can always spice up your sex life and promote intimacy with a little BDSM kit which includes Whips, buttplugs, gags, and wrist /ankle cuffs. But always go with the pace your partner that's playing the submissive role sets and always ensure that they are comfortable at all times because BDSM can mess with the submissive emotionally.</p>
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<p>In conclusion:</p>
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<p>You can use all this in promoting and spicing up your and your partner's sex life, and don't forget to play safe while you are at it.<em></em></p>
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<p>Did you find this article helpful? Kindly leave your thoughts in the comment section. Thank you.</p>
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